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Tell Us About The Time You Discovered You Have A Kink
We want to hear about your sexual discoveries: When did you learn you have a kink or particular sexual fantasy?
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You might've believed that you would have a typical sexuality, but an exceptional experience opened you up to a whole new world of sexual desires and fetishes.
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Perhaps you first learned you were not-so vanilla when you attended your first underground rave that had a specific area for BDSM, and you took a turn with the whip and the spanking horse, only to discover you're a full-blown dom.
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Maybe your sexual preferences are centered around your desire to be dominated, and your kink is amplified by what you're wearing, like leather, chastity devices, dog collars, padlocks, and shackles.
Maybe you find pleasure in roleplaying, dressing up in costumes, immersing yourself in your fantasies, or even going full incognito in a custom-made fur suit.
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Or perhaps you have a particular fetish like distinct types of feet, an accent very different from your own, or performing sexual acts for an audience as an exhibitionist.
When did you first discover you have a kink or sexual fantasy? (Make sure you explain why you safely participate(d) in your activity.) Share your response in the comments, or if you prefer to remain anonymous, you can use the form below. Your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.
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